Parda e Bakarat (Hymen):
Pakistan kay baaz elaqon mein suhag raat mein bed per white bedsheet bichai jati hai takay aurat ki virginity check ki ja sakey.
Agar pehli raat bed per khoon laga hai to aurat ko virgin samjha jata hai warna iss ko foran divorce dey di jati hai. Yani agar khoon na nikley to isko badkirdar samjha jata hai.
Hymen ki majoodgi ya adum-mojoodgi aurat ki virginity ka sign nahi. Merey ek naujawan client ney meri ek workshop "Shadi ki bharpoor khushi---Masail aur hal" mein shirkat kari aur phir iss ki shadi ho gaee. Shaadi kay next day us ka phone aya.
Woh bohut hi pareshan tha aur biwi ko divorce deney ka soch raha tha. Pareshan iss liye tha kay iss ney successful mubashrat (Intercourse) kii magar iss raat uski biwi ko khoon nahi aya.
Hamarey yahan hymen kay silsiley mein bhi ghalat maloomat ki bharmaar hai aur iss ko virginity ka sign samjha jata hai. Yeh vagina kay hole mein zara ander ki taraf mojood hota hai. Magar yeh mukammal tor per vagina ko band nahi karta.
Iss mein 1 sey 2 holes hotey hain takay mahwaari (menses) ka khoon nikal sakey. Yeh usually moon shaped hota hai lekin yeh size, shakal aur thickness kay lehaz sey mukhtalif aurton ka mukhtalif hota hai. Aksar aurton ka yeh hymen narm o nazuk hota hai aur pehli mubashrat (Intercourse) mein aasani sey rupture ho jata hai.
Jis sey mamooli takleef hoti hai aur kuch khoon bhi nikalta hai. Baaz aurton ka hymen sakht gosht ka bana hota hai jo mubashrat (Intercourse) mein rukawat aur takleef ka sabab banta hai.
Aisi surat mein minor operation ki zaroorat hoti hai. Baaz khawateen ka yeh hymen bohut hi elastic hota hai jo kay mubashrat (Intercourse) sey rupture nahi hota kyun kay yeh ander ko push kara ja sakta hai. Aisi surat mein aurat pregnant ho jati hai aur baaz surton mein to child birth bhi ho jati hai phir bhi yeh rupture nahi hota. Prostitutes iss soorat e haal sey khoob faeda uthati hain aur bar bar nath khulwai wasool karti hain.
Hymen ka hona ya na hona kisi bhi aurat kay virgin honay ka suboot nahi. Bohut si larkion ka hymen kisi accident ya uchal kood ki wajah sey rupture ho jata hai. Baaz ka musht zani(masturbation) ki wajah sey rupture ho jata hai.
Issi tarhan mahwaari (menses) kay doran pads waghaera kay use ya safaee sey bhi phat sakta hai. Baaz khawateen ka paidaishi tor per mojood hi nahi hota aur kuch khawateen ka hymen khoon kay ikhraj aur takleef kay baghaer hi phatt jata hai. Baaz mahireen ka khayal hai kay zyada tar khawateen ka hymen paedaesh kay baad fitri tor per ahista ahista ghayab hona shuru hojata hai.
Lehaza hymen ka na hona hargiz iss baat ka suboot nahi kay larki badkirdar hai. (Zakir: Mobeen: Hyde: Bechtel)
Pistaan (Breasts)
Baloghat mein larkyon kay jism mein bohut si tabdeelian aati hain. Inn mein ek ahem change pistaan (Breast) ka ubhar hai. Yeh ek medical kaifiyat hai. Yeh kaifiyat larki ko aurat bananey aur mother banney kay liye tayyar karney ki ibtidaee manzil hai. Aurat kay pistaan (Breast) ka ubhar husn ki alamat samjhee jati hai.
Aurat kay jism mein pistaan (Breast) sab sey zyada prominent sexual characteristic hain. Na sirf mard bul kay aurtein bhi inn ko sexual sign samajhti hain. Aurton kay pistaan (Breast) chotey bhi ho saktey hain aur big bhi. Baaz elaqon maslan france mein chotey aur smart pistaan (Breast) zyada pasandeeda hain. Jab kay bohut sey doosrey elaqon mein big pistaan (Breast) husun ki alamat hain.
Issi tarhan baaz afraad ko big pistaan (Breast) pasand hain aur baaz mard chotey aur smart pistaan (Breast) kay aashiq hotey hain. Pistaan (Breast) kay chotey ya big honay mein heredity, female hormones aur general sehat ka dakhal hai.
Jin elaqon mein big pistaan (Breast) pasand kiye jatey hain wahan unko barhanai ki bharpoor koshish ki jati hai. Wahan har khatoon ki khwahish hoti hai kay inn kay pistaan (Breast) big hon. Western countries mein khusoosan America mein pistaan (Breast) enlarge karney kay bohut sey tareeqey aazmaey ja chukey hain jin mein surgery bhi shamil hai. Magar iss mein koi khas kamiyabi hasil nahi hui.
Breast Size - Pistaan Ka Size:
Birth control ki tablets mein female hormones shamil hotey hain inkay istemal kay baad pistaan (Breast) size mein kisi had tak izafa ho sakta hai. Issi tarhan silicon ka injection dey kar bhi pistaan (Breast) ko artificially big kya ja sakta hai.
Estrogen cream laganey sey bhi pistaan (Breast) kuch enlarged ho saktey hain. Surgery ki madad sey bhi inko big kya ja sakta hai. Magar surgery bohut khatarnak hai aur yeh surgery expensive bhi hai. Aisi surgery usually shaadi kay baad ki jati hai. Issi tarhan kuch log vacuum kay zariye bhi pistaan (Breast) big karney ka dawa kartey hain.
Yeh system Pakistan mein bhi mojood hai magar iss sey koi farq nahi parta magar try karna mein kya harj hai. Shaadi kay baad specially bachey ki paedaesh kay baad khawateen kay pistaan (Breast) big ho jatey hain. Baaz khawateen kay pistaan (Breast) naram aur loose ho jatey hain aur inko exercise kay zariye hard kya ja sakta hai.
Kuch din pehley Kashmir sey ek 26 year old unmarried larki ney mujhey call ki woh apna large pistaan (Breast) ki wajah sey pareshan thee. Usually big pistaan (Breast) aurat kay husn ko dobala kartey hain magar agar yeh bohut big ho to inn ko sambhalna mushkil ho jata hai.
Iss surat mein operation kay zariye unko small kya ja sakta hai. Magar un-married larkiyon ko iss ka mashwara nahi diya ja sakta.
Kyun kay operation kay nishan nazar aatey hain. Iss tarhan husband kisi ghalat fehmi ka shikar ho sakta hai.
Baaz auqat ek pistaan (Breast) kuch big aur doosra kuch small hota hai. Yeh ek normal cheez hai. Na kay koi beemari. Iss kay elaj ki zaroorat nahi lekin agar yeh farq bohut hi zyada ho to shaadi kay baad surgery ki madad li ja sakti hai.
Issi tarhan baaz auqat ek pistaan (Breast) zyada sensitive hota hai aur doosra kam. Yeh bhi ek normal cheez hai. Baaz larkiyon kay pistaan (Breast) kay nipples kay bahir Areola kay erd gird kuch baal grow ho jatey hain yeh bhi ek normal cheez hai. Iss kay elaj ki zaroorat nahi. Agar chahein to inko aasani sey laser sey remove karaya ja sakta hai.
Bohut si larkiyan pistaan (Breast) kay tanau sey nijat hasil karney kay liye aur apni personality ko purkashish bananey ka liye bra ka estimal karney lagti hain. Baaz auqat woh tight bra pehenti hain takay tanau sey nijat hasil ho sakey.
Magar yeh tareeqa sahi nahi kyun kay tight bra sey pistaan (Breast) ki growth ruk jati hai. Baaz larkiyan bohut loose bra use karti hain woh bhi sahi nahi, Iss sey pistaan (Breast) latak jatey hain.
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